AITA for asking my (21m) boyfriend to wash the dishes?

Me (20f) and my boyfriend have been living together for almost a year. When we decided to make this move, I made sure to discuss responsibilities and housework. We made a plan to divide the housework so it’s all even. Fast forward, we move in together. I was working 40+ hours a week while doing ALL the housework and also putting all the furniture away and building the furniture myself. He was only working 20 something hours and wouldn’t lift a finger. I eventually left my job and have been dealing with some health issues, making it hard for me to work. Thankfully, he has been supporting me so I am able to take the time off to focus on myself. With that being said, I do all the chores by myself which I feel is right because I am not working. I only have him take out the trash but when I ask him, he will “forget” and it’ll stay there for two day. This has happened numerous times, although he passes by it every time he is in the kitchen which is a lot.

We have an apartment inspection coming up in two days, and I’m trying to clean and get everything in tiptop shape. He asked if he could help me with anything and I said yes, dishes. He said ok and told me that I don’t have to do it all alone, that I got him for help. He gets home at 10:30 pm and I ask him when is he gonna start on dishes. Well he tells me after he eats his Taco Bell. So I back off and continue cleaning the bathroom. More times passes and it’s around 12 now and he lays on the bed and begs to “spend time with me” and watch impractical jokers. So we did. It’s now 2:30 am and I ask him AGAIN when he is going to do dishes and he told me after he uses the bathroom. He gets back from taking a shit and get into bed, under the covers. Well now I am super aggravated because why say you’re going to do something when you wait hours after me repeatedly reminding you to do it. We get in an argument and all he says is “I want you to be sweet to me” and “I just wanted to spend time with you” and keeps saying I’m just being mean. I feel like I am raising a child! Am I wrong?

Just to put this out there, he is into Mommy Dom stuff and like act “little” or whatever. But there is a time for fantasy and a time for reality and I feel like he has a hard time separating both and it’s exhausting.

EDIT: since some people don’t seem to get it. HE asked ME if he could do anything to help me clean the house in order to get everything looking good for the inspection. I didn’t demand or ask him to do them, he offered himself. Yet waits 4 hours to do them after me repeatedly asking him to do them like he said he would.