I'm perceived as rude

I'm "high masking" (I know that may be outdated and offensive but idk how else to say it) and everywhere I go I'm perceived as rude or talking with a tone/attitude. I only know this because my bf explained how I'm being perceived in public. Meanwhile from my point of view everyone is rude to me for no reason and it makes me hate people and socializing. Example: the person at the drive through says they can't hear me, even up to 3 times in a row. I tell them my order LOUDER so they can hear it. Then my bf says "thanks, now they're going to spit in my food". Is this relatable to anyone here?