Thoughts on the place of social media/electronics in your divorce

The rise of social media and the craving for validation are a big part of the problem in modern marriage and the breakdown to divorce. The question is, has the improved ability to catch your wandering partner via their careless text/message trail been a blessing or a curse? Before all the electronic communication, would your partner's deeds slip under the radar, or, has the electronic communication been the enabler in the process?

And here is an extra tip: Alexa/Google etc all keep records of the questions that have been asked of them, imagine my surprise when reviewing our Alexa data from home and hearing my wife ask Alexa..."Alexa is my new boyfriend good-looking?" or "Alexa, best place for a secret romantic getaway?"