How do you guys deal with it?

I recently saw this post on the HHr discord and related to it immensely. So I thought I’d ask you guys. How do you deal with this void or feeling of emptiness when you read the books or watch the movies and know Harry and Hermione don’t get together? Feels like my love for the series has dwindled with each passing year to the point that I haven’t touched the books or movies for years now just b/c of that feeling.