Question for those living in mainly red states

Back during COVID I had to move down south to a very red state. There are a lot of reasons why I had to that I don't want to get into

Now, I have a job and stuff down here. Sadly, I'm a teacher and it's hard to live in any state on a teachers salary, but it does stretch further in the state I currently live in.

How do you handle living in a red state and hearing the constant opinions of those around you?

I feel guilty living here.

I struggle with the culture and way of life.

Any advice? I currently cannot move, and am hoping to find a way to enjoy living here if possible.