Singaporeans! Share your worst date experience and how you felt afterwards

Was curious to know where you are finding men/women to date ! At the same time share your worst date experience and how you handled the situation/your emotions afterwards ?

I will go first! I had matched with a guy on a dating app and we agreed to meet at a restaurant in Orchard . I dressed up, took a cab and made my way there . He arrived slightly earlier than I did , and I told him to go ahead and order something as I was running slightly late (ten minutes) . He said ok. When I arrived I apologies for being late , he didn’t react . I asked him why he didn’t order anything (the restaurant had a QR code ordering system ) and he said because he does not have a credit card or any bank card (although his wallet was on the table together with his phone and I could see that he had a few cards peek out— one actually looked like the DBS bank card. I said it’s ok and went ahead to ask what he wanted to eat ( I was ok to pay for it) he just stared at me blankly and said he doesn’t know. After a long pause I suggested we get fries to share and once again he didn’t respond or react . I tried to brush it off and ask if he wanted drinks instead.. and had the same silent and cold reaction. I had not eaten anything since morning as I thought I would eat on the date . At this point I was losing my patience and asked him why he’s so quiet because on the app he responded normally . And again, he didn’t say anything but after a few second very rudely says “ You will pay right because I don’t have a card why not you pay and I will figure out a way to pay you . “ he repeated this and I lost my patience . I cancelled the order, got up and left the restaurant without saying anything . While walking , completely huffed I blocked him and went ahead to do some window shopping before heading home.

A few pointers to add before some internet warriors come at me :

1) it was not about the money or who was paying, rather he just kept talking about card/payment as if it was such a big deal

2) when I arrived he didn’t say hi, no hugs , no formalities . Just stared

3) when I asked him what he wanted to eat or drink he didn’t even bother to respond despite giving suggestions to him

Apologies for punctuations or spelling errors . Keyboards not functioning well .

ADDITIONAL EDIT: would be good to know especially from commenters here if they had ghosted their date afterwards or was there a follow up to add more zest to the story! Let’s make this as fun and enlightening as possible .