Is Xaden THAT great?

Hi everyone! I read the first book of the Empyrian series, fourth wing, and even though I really like Xaden, I don't get why this specific male character has been SO IDOLIZED. It could be just a trend, but I see so many tiktoks about him being the best boyfriend of all romantasy books and I start to feel that I missed something in the book. Can you tell me if you also agree he is the best or not and why? Please don't give any spoilers from books 2 and 3. Thanks!