Red flag boyfriends.

I 23F was once dating a boy 28M hoping for him to be much more mature than me but alas

He had several fwbs/exes before we started dating and was vocal about them but once we started dating he still kept meeting these girls alone gaslighting me into believing this being a very normal thing and I am not trusting him if I would ever raise an issue.

Morever, while dating he also visited 2 of his exes/lovers wedding and omg the balls - he calls me up while at the wedding saying how she (bride) would have been the perfect match and her family perfect in-laws just because they are sindhi and they eat nonveg and drink while family doesn’t.

AND TO TOP IT ALL OFF, while breaking up he had the balls to tell me on my call, “I know you are gold, but I want to go and look for diamond then I am okay with landing a silver but I will not have a regret of not looking for somewhere better” I mean broo???? I am here taking all your crap and you have the guts to say this. I must say, what love does to people.