what are your thoughts on trans girlies & femme gays who suddenly become masc ?

recently, junjun changed their appearance to a more masculine "boy-ish" look despite previously identifying as a trans nene (trans girl)

i also remembered buknoy changing her/his apperance for a gwapo look, despite being feminine throughout their stint in internet fame.

disclaimer: i know gender fluidity exists.

however, junjun, for example, kasi i've read before that they lack finances to buy hormones and they also experience an extreme heartbreak, leading to de-transitioning

meanwhile, buknoy changed their appearance after experiencing constant bashing online (and also i think another breakup).

i know several femme gays and trans gays my life who have also undergone the same phenomenon.

this phenomenon worries me bc it happens due to financial circumstance and trauma.

i would just like to remind my gender non-conforming, trans, nb, and queer bbs out there that you don't need to change your appearance and who you are to be loved, respected, and accepted.

there are also people out there willing to help and support so please hold on.

find your people and create your safe spaces💗