AITA for telling my girlfriend I feel like her "brown accessory" instead of her boyfriend?

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I’m just her “brown boyfriend,” and it’s quietly breaking me

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AITA for resenting how my GF uses me to look progressive but might have a dual personality?

This is a community like r/AmITheAsshole, except unlike that subreddit you can post interpersonal conflicts. Anything that's AITA including relationships, hypotheticals, even posting about Scar from the Lion King and trying to convince redditors that he was not the AH. AI scenarios/posts are not welcome or tolerated. An elaboration on our rules can be found here: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/wiki/index